Enemies Quote by Stephen Vizinczey
““I wonder, what kind of life would I have had if it hadn’t been for my mother’s tea-and-cookie parties? Perhaps it’s because of them that I’ve never thought of women as my enemies, as territories I have to conquer, but always as allies and friends - which I believe is the reason why they were friendly to me in turn. I’ve never met those she-devils you hear about: they must be too busy with those men who look upon women as a fortress they have to attack, lay waste and left in ruins.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The World of Yesterday by Stephen Vizinczey, 1971
The author credits his mother’s gatherings for shaping a view of women as allies rather than adversaries, contrasting with hostile stereotypes.
In simple terms: Mother’s gatherings taught respect for women.
Key Takeaway
Value respectful relationships with women.
Themes
respect
gender relations
friendship
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
narrative
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal upbringing
- workplace dynamics
- community building
Key Concepts
feminism
social conditioning
stereotypes
Questions to Reflect On
- How have early influences shaped your view of gender?
- Do you see any biases lingering?
A Different Perspective
May overlook negative experiences with women.
![“The Romans assisted their allies and friends, and acquired friendships by giving rather than receiving kindness. [Lat., Sociis atque amicis auxilia portabant Romani, magisque dandis quam accipiundis beneficiis amicitias parabant.]” quote by Sallust](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/1da/sallust-4191_allies_the-romans-assisted-their-allies-and-fri_297234.jpg)
