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“It is perfectly possible to live a life from cradle to grave that is entirely dishonest.One might never reveal one's true identity, the yearnings and cravings of one's innermost self, even to the most intimate circle of family and friends; never really speak the truth to anyone. Priests and…” quote by Stephen Fry
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““It is perfectly possible to live a life from cradle to grave that is entirely dishonest.One might never reveal one's true identity, the yearnings and cravings of one's innermost self, even to the most intimate circle of family and friends; never really speak the truth to anyone. Priests and psychotherapists may believe that the confessional-box or the analysis session reveals truths, but you know and I know and every human being knows that we lie all the time to all the world. Lying is as much a part of us as wearing clothes. Indeed Man's first act in Eden was to give names to everything on earth, our first act of possession and falsehood was to take away a stone's right to be a stone by imprisoning it with the name "stone". There are in reality, as Fenellosa said, no nouns in the universe. Man's next great act was to cover himself up. We have been doing so ever since. We feel that our true identities shame us. Lying is a deep part of us. TO take it away is to make us something less than, not more than, human.””

Stephen Fry

About This Quote

Source Book: The Fry Chronicles by Stephen Fry, 2010

Human beings habitually conceal their true selves, using deception as a fundamental, in to identity and social interaction.

In simple terms: We often hide who we really are.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and confront your authentic self.

Themes

identity deception self-awareness human nature

Mood

reflective introspective

Type

philosophical critical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • therapy sessions
  • creative expression
  • social media
  • workplace dynamics

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology philosophy

Questions to Reflect On

  • What aspects of yourself do you hide?
  • How does deception protect or harm you?
A Different Perspective

True authenticity may cause social alienation or personal discomfort.

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