Adolescence Quote by Stephen Dobyns
“Adolescence is a dreadful period. We tend to notice those youngsters who misbehave and call attention to themselves, but there are others, equally miserable, who receive no help simply because they are silent. (41)”
About This Quote
Source Poem: Unknown collection, 1990s
Adolescence often hides suffering in silent youths while noisy misbehavers attract attention, leaving many unheard.
In simple terms: Silent teens suffer unnoticed.
Key Takeaway
Listen to quiet voices.
Themes
adolescence
empathy
social awareness
Mood
concerned
reflective
Type
observational
empathetic
When to use this quote
- schools
- family counseling
- peer groups
- community programs
Key Concepts
psychology
silence
attention bias
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we better support silent youths?
- What biases affect our attention to suffering?
A Different Perspective
Not all pain is visible; some may resist help.
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