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“I have a rule." "Elaborate." The statue is still warm from the previous visitors. "I ask myself, if the worst happened—if I did get knocked up-would I be embarrassed to tell my child who his father was? If the answer is anywhere even remotely close to yes, then there's no way." He nods slowly…” quote by Stephanie Perkins
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““I have a rule." "Elaborate." The statue is still warm from the previous visitors. "I ask myself, if the worst happened—if I did get knocked up-would I be embarrassed to tell my child who his father was? If the answer is anywhere even remotely close to yes, then there's no way." He nods slowly. "That's a good rule.””

Stephanie Perkins

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Summer I Turned Pretty, 2009

A personal rule about honesty and identity, questioning whether shame would prevent truth‑telling to a child.

In simple terms: Honesty about parentage, even if awkward.

Key Takeaway

Embrace truth, avoid secrecy.

Themes

identity honesty family shame rules

Mood

thoughtful introspective

Type

ethical personal

When to use this quote

  • parent‑child conversations
  • family planning
  • relationship counseling
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

psychology ethical decision self‑acceptance

Questions to Reflect On

  • How would you handle a similar truth?
  • What values guide your honesty?
A Different Perspective

May cause emotional distress for child; cultural taboos.

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