Children Quote by Stephanie Grace Whitson
““What is this strange touch?" With a start, Jesse realized that Rides the Wind had awakened. He lay watching her closely.Feeling shy she pulled the buffalo robe up under her chin, answering softly, "My people say 'kiss.'" "And who gives this 'kiss'?" "Parents to children, husband to wife." "Show me." As he said it he leaned toward her. Jesse obediently placed a kiss upon the wind-hardened cheek. He kept his face near hers and the dark eyes searched hers.Then a knowing smile curled up the edges of his mouth. "When Marcus Whitman met with Running Bear and the traders,Rides the Wind was there.I saw many things.I saw this touch you call 'kiss' between man and woman.It was not here," he tapped his cheek, "but here." His finger indicated his mouth. Jesse felt her face flush and wondered if the early morning light revealed her embarrassment. She assented, "Yes,for some it is so." "Did Jesse King and Homer King touch in this ay?" Jesse looked hard into the searching eyes.They returned her stare with honest interest. "My people do not speak of these things." Rides the Wind was quiet for a moment, pondering her response. "If the white man speaks not of what is here," he laid a hand flat upon the tawny chest, "he must be very sad.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Winds of Change by Stephanie Grace Whitson, 2012
A cultural encounter reveals differing views on intimacy and communication between peoples.
In simple terms: Different cultures see affection differently.
Key Takeaway
Respect and learn other customs.
Themes
culture
intimacy
communication
understanding
Mood
thoughtful
reflective
Type
narrative
dialogue
When to use this quote
- first contact with indigenous peoples
- intercultural relationships
- teaching respect for traditions
Key Concepts
anthropology
cross‑cultural exchange
social norms
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you navigate intimacy across cultural boundaries?
- What can we learn from respecting different customs?
A Different Perspective
Assuming one’s own norms are universal can cause misunderstanding.
