Better Quote by Stephanie Coontz
“People feel better when their spouses have good friendships, over and above the effects of their own friendships.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Marriage and Family: A Social, Cultural, and Psychological History, 2016
Research shows that spouses’ friendships positively affect their own well‑being beyond the impact of personal friendships, highlighting the social benefit of a partner’s social network.
In simple terms: Spouses’ friendships improve personal happiness.
Cultivate supportive friendships for both partners.
Themes
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When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- family therapy
- social events
- community building
- personal growth
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance personal and partner friendships?
- What role should a spouse play in your social life?
Relying on a partner’s friends may create dependency or jealousy.