Commit Quote by Stella Gibbons
“Here was an occasion, she thought, for indulging in that deliberate rudeness which only persons with habitually good manners have the right to commit...”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Cold Comfort Farm by Stella Gibbons, 1932
A well‑mannered person can safely be rude when they have a habit of good behavior, turning rudeness into a subtle, socially acceptable act.
In simple terms: Good manners let you be rude without offense.
Key Takeaway
Use politeness to soften necessary bluntness.
Themes
manners
social norms
subtle rebellion
Mood
wry
reflective
Type
literary
observational
When to use this quote
- Office feedback
- family gatherings
- diplomatic negotiations
- customer service
- creative criticism
Key Concepts
Etiquette
social dynamics
power play
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it appropriate to be blunt?
- How does habit affect perceived rudeness?
A Different Perspective
Rudeness may still alienate if overused.
