Comfort Quote by Stanley Greenspan
“Although pretend play is important, it is still the means to an end, not the end itself. Do not make the mistake of thinking a contrived, pretend drama can substitute for real interpersonal comfort in dealing with important emotional issues.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Child Development Talk, 1995
Pretend play is a tool for growth, not a replacement for genuine emotional connection.
In simple terms: Play is a means, not the end.
Balance play with real interaction.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- parenting
- education
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What real connections do you need?
- How can play support, not replace, intimacy?
Play cannot solve deep emotional needs alone.