Been Quote by Siri Hustvedt
“That's one of the great lies of intimacy, to pretend you know everything - you cannot. No matter how close you've been, over however many years, there remain secrets. I think we all know that - that you don't tell everybody everything.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Shining Girls by Siri Hustvedt, 2013
Intimacy cannot be complete; there will always be unknowns and secrets despite closeness.
In simple terms: You can never fully know someone.
Accept mystery in relationships.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- longterm relationships
- friendships
- marriages
- family dynamics
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What secrets do you keep?
- How does mystery affect trust?
People may fear vulnerability, limiting openness.