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“That's one of the great lies of intimacy, to pretend you know everything - you cannot. No matter how close you've been, over however many years, there remain secrets. I think we all know that - that you don't tell everybody everything.” quote by Siri Hustvedt
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“That's one of the great lies of intimacy, to pretend you know everything - you cannot. No matter how close you've been, over however many years, there remain secrets. I think we all know that - that you don't tell everybody everything.”

Siri Hustvedt

About This Quote

Source Book: The Shining Girls by Siri Hustvedt, 2013

Intimacy cannot be complete; there will always be unknowns and secrets despite closeness.

In simple terms: You can never fully know someone.

Key Takeaway

Accept mystery in relationships.

Themes

intimacy secrets communication

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • longterm relationships
  • friendships
  • marriages
  • family dynamics

Key Concepts

psychology human nature

Questions to Reflect On

  • What secrets do you keep?
  • How does mystery affect trust?
A Different Perspective

People may fear vulnerability, limiting openness.

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