Categories Quote by Shirley Geok-lin Lim
“These commonplace categories - wife, mother, housewife, teacher - are in fact teleological referents. They gesture to profound states of being that animate, absorb and saturate the subject, like indelible dyes spilled repeatedly over a plain fabric. No matter if the fabric is sturdy or delicate, translucent or opaque, those dyes will stain. They will color the days and years and life.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: Identity and Gender Roles, 2015
The passage likens societal roles to dyes that permanently color a person’s identity, shaping life’s fabric.
In simple terms: Roles imprint lasting influence on identity.
Recognize and choose the roles that define you.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- career choices
- family dynamics
- personal development
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Which “dyes” have shaped your life?
- Can you change the colors of your identity?
May oversimplify complex identities.