Birth Quote by Sherrie Eldridge
““Because our birth mothers made a choice for us that dramatically changed the course of our lives and over which we had no control, many of us have a foundational belief (often unconscious) that we don't have the right to choose our own course in life. We feel instead that we are at the mercy of others.””
About This Quote
Source Article: Psychological Perspectives on Agency, 2021
Many people inherit an unconscious belief that they lack control over life choices because of early decisions made by others, leading to a sense of helplessness.
In simple terms: We often feel we can’t choose our own path.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and reclaim personal agency.
Themes
agency
control
family dynamics
Mood
thoughtful
hopeful
Type
reflective
inspirational
When to use this quote
- therapy
- education
- career planning
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
psychology
determinism
self‑determination
Questions to Reflect On
- How does this belief affect your decisions?
- What steps can you take to assert autonomy?
A Different Perspective
Changing deep‑seated beliefs can be a slow, painful process.
