Forgiveness Quote by Shannon Moroney
““I was realizing that forgiveness was a decision I would have to revisit over and over. It was turning out to be a process, not a single act. Forgiveness neither erased nor diminished the magnitude of Jason's violence and its continuing ripple-effect. It didn't take away the anger, frustration or loss I felt about what he'd done, and it couldn't bring back the life I'd had with him. What forgiveness did do was remind me that there was a human being behind the violence, and that his heinous acts did not represent the sum of who he was. Forgiveness gave me the permission to see and know both aspects of Jason, to be enormously angry and pained by his violent acts, but also to let go of that anguish before it took complete control over my mind and heart. Forgiveness stopped rage from becoming resentment, and it released me from having every aspect of my character and the life I still had ahead from being bound to Jason's violence. Forgiveness put my life back into my own hands.””
About This Quote
Forgiveness is a repeated, deliberate choice that frees one from ongoing resentment.
In simple terms: Forgiveness is a process, not a single act.
Choose forgiveness repeatedly to heal.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal conflict
- relationship repair
- grieving loss
- moving past betrayal
- mental health counseling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does repeated forgiveness affect anger?
- Can you forgive without forgetting?
Forgiveness may not erase pain.