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Best friend Quote by Sarah Dessen

“I’d never been in love, never felt that surge of feeling or that fall from its graces. I’d only watched as others weathered it: my mother in her garden, Sumner on the front lawn all those years ago, Ashley sobbing from the other side of a wall. I sat kerbside with my best friend and held her…” quote by Sarah Dessen
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““I’d never been in love, never felt that surge of feeling or that fall from its graces. I’d only watched as others weathered it: my mother in her garden, Sumner on the front lawn all those years ago, Ashley sobbing from the other side of a wall. I sat kerbside with my best friend and held her, trying to shoulder some of the hurt. There’s only so much you can do, in these situations.””

Sarah Dessen

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Truth About Forever by Sarah Dessen, 2009

Love and grief are shared experiences, but one can only offer limited help.

In simple terms: You can comfort others, but cannot fully heal them.

Key Takeaway

Offer empathy, recognize limits of assistance.

Themes

love grief empathy limits

Mood

empathetic somber

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • friendship crises
  • loss
  • family illness

Key Concepts

emotional support compassion

Questions to Reflect On

  • When have you felt powerless to help?
  • How can you balance self-care with caring for others?
A Different Perspective

Expecting to fix others can cause burnout.

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