Disagreeable Quote by Samuel Johnson
“Depend upon it that if a man talks of his misfortunes there is something in them that is not disagreeable to him; for where there is nothing but pure misery there never is any recourse to the mention of it.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Rambler, No. 190, 1750
People tend to speak about misfortunes only when some aspect is bearable or even valuable to them, avoiding pure misery that offers no relief.
In simple terms: We mention hardships when they have some redeeming side.
Acknowledge pain only if it offers insight.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- personal journals
- support groups
- storytelling
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What aspects of your suffering feel meaningful?
- When do you avoid talking about pain?
Pure misery may be too overwhelming to discuss, limiting honest expression.