Art Quote by Samantha Young
““I'm not that hard to get to know, really." He flashed me a quick smile. "But you... I think you've made an art form out of deflection and self-possession.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Summer I Turned Pretty by Jenny Han, 2015
The speaker suggests the person avoids genuine connection, using deflection and self-possession as a protective art.
In simple terms: People hide behind deflection.
Notice and address avoidance.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendship
- workplace interactions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do you deflect?
- How can you foster genuine connection?
Deflection can be a coping mechanism, not just a flaw.