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“Living as a perfectionist means thinking and living in “black and white” – there are no grey areas. You are either perfect with your diet, or you throw in the towel and completely screw it up, all while shaming yourself. Perfectionism is the death of happiness. It’s impossible to feel happy and at…” quote by Samantha Skelly
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““Living as a perfectionist means thinking and living in “black and white” – there are no grey areas. You are either perfect with your diet, or you throw in the towel and completely screw it up, all while shaming yourself. Perfectionism is the death of happiness. It’s impossible to feel happy and at peace with yourself when you are on a constant path of self-sabotage.””

Samantha Skelly

About This Quote

Source Blog post: Perfectionism and mental health, 2023

Perfectionism forces black‑and‑white thinking, blocking happiness and fostering self‑sabotage.

In simple terms: All‑or‑nothing mindset harms joy.

Key Takeaway

Embrace nuance, accept imperfection.

Themes

mental health perfectionism well‑being

Mood

reflective concerned

Type

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When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • daily self‑check
  • creative work

Key Concepts

cognitive bias self‑criticism balance

Questions to Reflect On

  • What areas of your life feel black‑and‑white?
  • How can you introduce gray?
A Different Perspective

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