Away Quote by Saint Bernard
“Christian, learn from Christ how you ought to love Christ. Learn a love that is tender, wise, strong; love with tenderness, not passion, wisdom, not foolishness, and strength, lest you become weary and turn away from the love of the Lord.”
About This Quote
Source Sermon: Christian love instruction, 12th century
Love should be gentle, wise, and strong, not driven by reckless passion; it requires balance of tenderness and wisdom to avoid burnout.
In simple terms: Love needs balance of tenderness and wisdom.
Cultivate steady, wise love.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- spiritual mentorship
- personal reflection
- community building
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does “tenderness not passion” mean for daily relationships?
- How can one maintain strength without becoming weary?
Passionate love without wisdom can lead to exhaustion.