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Deceiving Quote by Saint Augustine

“AugustineThe wounds of a friend are better than the kisses of an enemy. To love with sternness is better than to deceive with gentleness… In Luke [14:23] it is written: "Compel people to come in!" By threats of the wrath of God, the Father draws souls to his Son.” quote by Saint Augustine
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“AugustineThe wounds of a friend are better than the kisses of an enemy. To love with sternness is better than to deceive with gentleness… In Luke [14:23] it is written: "Compel people to come in!" By threats of the wrath of God, the Father draws souls to his Son.”

Saint Augustine

About This Quote

Source Book: Confessions, Saint Augustine, c. 397 AD

True love may be harsh but honest, whereas deceitful kindness feels like betrayal.

In simple terms: Honest love is better than false kindness.

Key Takeaway

Choose truth over comforting lies.

Themes

love honesty spirituality

Mood

reflective serious

Type

philosophical spiritual advice

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • spiritual guidance
  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

theology ethics human nature

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance truth with compassion?
  • When is kindness harmful?
A Different Perspective

Harsh truth can alienate; sometimes gentle honesty works better.

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