Deceiving Quote by Saint Augustine
“AugustineThe wounds of a friend are better than the kisses of an enemy. To love with sternness is better than to deceive with gentleness… In Luke [14:23] it is written: "Compel people to come in!" By threats of the wrath of God, the Father draws souls to his Son.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Confessions, Saint Augustine, c. 397 AD
True love may be harsh but honest, whereas deceitful kindness feels like betrayal.
In simple terms: Honest love is better than false kindness.
Choose truth over comforting lies.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- spiritual guidance
- conflict resolution
- personal growth
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance truth with compassion?
- When is kindness harmful?
Harsh truth can alienate; sometimes gentle honesty works better.