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“Just because your mind tells you that something is awful or evil or unplanned or otherwise negative doesn't mean you have to agree. Just because other people say that something is hopeless or crazy or broken to pieces doesn't mean it is. We decide what story to tell ourselves. Or whether we will…” quote by Ryan Holiday
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““Just because your mind tells you that something is awful or evil or unplanned or otherwise negative doesn't mean you have to agree. Just because other people say that something is hopeless or crazy or broken to pieces doesn't mean it is. We decide what story to tell ourselves. Or whether we will tell one at all.””

Ryan Holiday

About This Quote

Source Book: The Daily Stoic, 2016

We can choose how to interpret events, regardless of external negativity or others' opinions.

In simple terms: We decide our own narrative.

Key Takeaway

Choose your own story.

Themes

mindset perception self‑determination

Mood

reflective determined

Type

philosophical motivational

When to use this quote

  • personal setbacks
  • media narratives
  • mental health
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

Stoicism cognitive reframing

Questions to Reflect On

  • What story are you telling yourself?
  • How do you challenge negative narratives?
A Different Perspective

Changing mindset can be hard when emotions run high.

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