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“What a Crazy Woman Thinks About While Walking Down the Street She tries to walk not too fast and not too slow. She doesn’t want to attract any attention. She pretends she doesn’t hear the whistles and catcalls and lewd comments. Sometimes she forgets and leaves her house in a skirt or a tank top…” quote by Roxane Gay
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““What a Crazy Woman Thinks About While Walking Down the Street She tries to walk not too fast and not too slow. She doesn’t want to attract any attention. She pretends she doesn’t hear the whistles and catcalls and lewd comments. Sometimes she forgets and leaves her house in a skirt or a tank top because it’s a warm day and she wants to feel warm air on her bare skin. Before long, she remembers. She keeps her keys in her hand, three of them held between her fingers, like a dull claw. She makes eye contact only when necessary and if a man should catch her eye, she juts her chin forward, makes sure the line of her jaw is strong. When she leaves work or the bar late, she calls a car service and when the car pulls up to her building, she quickly scans the street to make sure it’s safe to walk the short distance from the curb to the door. She once told a boyfriend about these considerations and he said, “You are completely out of your mind.” She told a new friend at work and she said, “Honey, you’re not crazy. You’re a woman.””

Roxane Gay

About This Quote

Source Essay: “The Woman Who Walks” (2015)

A woman navigates public spaces with constant vigilance to avoid harassment.

In simple terms: She stays alert to stay safe.

Key Takeaway

Maintain awareness and set boundaries.

Themes

safety gender public space self‑protection

Mood

anxious resolute

Type

reflective empowering

When to use this quote

  • commuting
  • night shifts
  • social events
  • urban walking

Key Concepts

social conditioning personal agency

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does vigilance affect your daily life?
  • What strategies can reduce this burden?
A Different Perspective

Constant vigilance can be exhausting and limit freedom.

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