Feel better Quote by Roxane Gay
““There is always a moment when I am losing weight when I feel better in my body. I breathe easier. I move better. I feel myself getting smaller and stronger. My clothes fall over my body the way they should and then they start to get baggy. I get terrified. I start to worry about my body becoming more vulnerable as it grows smaller. I start to imagine all the ways I could be hurt. I start to remember all the ways I have been hurt.””
About This Quote
It describes the paradox of weight loss: initial confidence followed by fear of vulnerability and recollection of past trauma.
In simple terms: Weight loss brings confidence but also fear and past trauma resurfacing.
Acknowledge both empowerment and underlying anxieties.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- fitness journeys
- therapy sessions
- support groups
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you balance confidence with safety?
- What coping mechanisms help with past trauma?
May trigger negative self‑talk.