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Ashamed Quote by Roxane Gay

“I buried the girl I had been because she ran into all kinds of trouble. I tried to erase every memory of her, but she is still there, somewhere. She is still small and scared and ashamed, and perhaps I am writing my way back to her, trying to tell her everything she needs to hear.” quote by Roxane Gay
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““I buried the girl I had been because she ran into all kinds of trouble. I tried to erase every memory of her, but she is still there, somewhere. She is still small and scared and ashamed, and perhaps I am writing my way back to her, trying to tell her everything she needs to hear.””

Roxane Gay

About This Quote

Source Novel: Diary of a Wimpy Kid? No, actually it's a personal essay by Roxane Gay, possibly from 'Hunger' or 'Difficult Women', 2017

The narrator confronts a lost part of herself, trying to reconnect with a suppressed inner child through writing.

In simple terms: Trying to heal a hidden, wounded self.

Key Takeaway

Write to reclaim and soothe your inner child.

Themes

self‑discovery healing identity writing

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

personal therapeutic

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • journaling
  • creative writing
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

psychology memory self‑compassion

Questions to Reflect On

  • What part of yourself have you buried?
  • How can writing bridge that gap?
A Different Perspective

Healing may be slow and the inner child may resist.

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