“Don't always feel bad when you lose something in life. always remember that in life, for you to gain something, you have to lose something in return. take for instance, for you to gain wealth, you have to lose poverty, also for you to gain freedom, you have to lose your bondage, likewise, for you to gain joy, you have to lose your sorrow. there are some people, places, and things you have to lose for you to get to your dreamland. that it pains you that you have lost it, doesn't mean it would be better if you had it anyway. but one thing is certain, there are some people who are in their present bondage, because they refused to let go of certain things like addiction, bad habits, and even some friends, who are bad influences. although in life there are some times you lose what you actually need, but that doesn't mean you should allow it weigh you down. its bad enough that you have lose it, but you shouldn't lose you joy because of that, at least its better to lose one thing, than to los”