Being in love Quote by Rollo May
“When I fall in love, I feel more valuable and I treat myself with more care. We have all observed the hesitant adolescent, uncertain of himself, who, when he or she falls in love, suddenly walks with a certain inner assuredness and confidence, a mien which seems to say, "You are looking at somebody now." ... this inner sense of worth that comes with being in love does not seem to depend essentially on whether the love is returned or not.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Courage to Be, Rollo May, 1955
Love can boost self‑worth and confidence regardless of reciprocity, providing an inner sense of value.
In simple terms: Love raises self‑esteem even if unreciprocated.
Key Takeaway
Recognize love’s self‑affirming effect.
Themes
self‑esteem
confidence
love
identity
Mood
hopeful
reflective
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- adolescent dating
- first love
- relationship counseling
- personal growth
Key Concepts
psychology
humanistic theory
self‑concept
Questions to Reflect On
- How does love change your self‑view?
- Can confidence persist without love?
A Different Perspective
Unreciprocated love may still cause heartbreak.
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