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Ageing Quote by Robin Sloan

“But when people are past a certain age, you sort if stop asking them why they do things. It feels dangerous. What if you say So, Mr Penumbra, why do you want to know about Mr Tyndall's coat buttons? And he pauses, and scratches his chin, and there's an uncomfortable silence-- and we both realize…” quote by Robin Sloan
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““But when people are past a certain age, you sort if stop asking them why they do things. It feels dangerous. What if you say So, Mr Penumbra, why do you want to know about Mr Tyndall's coat buttons? And he pauses, and scratches his chin, and there's an uncomfortable silence-- and we both realize he can't remember?””

Robin Sloan

About This Quote

Source Novel: Mr. Penumbra's 24-Hour Bookstore by Robin Sloan, 2012

People often stop questioning older individuals, assuming they lack relevance, which can silence valuable insights.

In simple terms: We stop asking elders why they act, missing their perspectives.

Key Takeaway

Ask open‑ended questions regardless of age.

Themes

age communication respect curiosity

Mood

thoughtful empathetic

Type

reflective inspirational

When to use this quote

  • family discussions
  • workplace mentorship
  • intergenerational projects
  • historical research

Key Concepts

generational gaps memory social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we encourage respectful dialogue across ages?
  • What assumptions do we make about older people's knowledge?
A Different Perspective

Older adults may feel pressured to justify themselves, leading to discomfort.

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