Change Quote by Robert Kegan
“Change does not fail to occur because of insincerity. The heart patient is not insincere about his wish to keep living, even as he reaches for another cigarette. Change fails to occur because we mean both things. It fails to occur because we are a living contradiction.”
About This Quote
Source Book: 'In Over Our Heads', 1994
Change stalls when inner contradictions prevent sincere commitment.
In simple terms: Contradictions block change.
Key Takeaway
Align intentions with actions.
Themes
psychology
personal growth
paradox
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
theoretical
motivational
When to use this quote
- therapy
- coaching
- habit formation
Key Concepts
developmental theory
cognitive dissonance
Questions to Reflect On
- What contradictions hinder your change?
- How can you resolve inner conflict?
A Different Perspective
Self‑deception can mask true motives.
