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Good marriage Quote by Robert Graves

“Call it a good marriage - For no one ever questioned Her warmth, his masculinity, Their interlocking views; Except one stray graphologist Who frowned in speculation At her h's and her s's, His p's and w's. Though few would still subscribe To the monogamic axiom That strife below the hip-bones Need…” quote by Robert Graves
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““Call it a good marriage - For no one ever questioned Her warmth, his masculinity, Their interlocking views; Except one stray graphologist Who frowned in speculation At her h's and her s's, His p's and w's. Though few would still subscribe To the monogamic axiom That strife below the hip-bones Need not estrange the heart, Call it a good marriage: More drew those two together, Despite a lack of children, Than pulled them apart. Call it a good marriage: They never fought in public, They acted circumspectly And faced the world with pride; Thus the hazards of their love-bed Were none of our damned business - Till as jurymen we sat on Two deaths by suicide.””

Robert Graves

About This Quote

Source Poem: The Marriage of Heaven and Hell, 1910

A marriage can thrive despite societal expectations, lacking children, and public scrutiny, focusing on mutual respect.

In simple terms: Love can succeed without traditional norms.

Key Takeaway

Value partnership over convention.

Themes

love nonconformity society relationships

Mood

thoughtful reflective

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • childless couples
  • public perception
  • private intimacy

Key Concepts

marriage dynamics social expectations

Questions to Reflect On

  • What defines a successful partnership for you?
  • How do societal norms shape your view of marriage?
A Different Perspective

May overlook underlying personal conflicts.

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