Good marriage Quote by Rainer Maria Rilke
““The aim of marriage, as I feel it, is not by means of demolition and overthrowing of all boundaries to create a hasty communion, the good marriage is rather one in which each appoints the other as guardian of his solitude and shews him this greatest trust that he has to confer. A togetherness of two human beings is an impossibility and, where it does seem to exist, a limitation, a mutual compromise which robs one side or both sides of their fullest freedom and development. “But granted the consciousness that even between the closest people there persist infinite distances, a wonderful living side by side can arise for them, if they succeed in loving the expanse between them, which gives them the possibility of seeing one another in whole shape and before a great sky!””
About This Quote
Source Essay: “The Art of Marriage” (published 1904)
Marriage is best when partners respect each other's individuality, allowing personal freedom while sharing life together.
In simple terms: Respect each other's space while staying together.
Key Takeaway
Honor each other's solitude.
Themes
relationships
individuality
trust
freedom
love
Mood
contemplative
intimate
Type
philosophical
reflective
When to use this quote
- long‑term partnership
- cohabitation
- creative collaborations
- parenting
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
existentialism
psychology
boundary theory
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you balance personal freedom with intimacy?
- What boundaries protect love?
A Different Perspective
Too much emphasis on solitude can lead to emotional distance.
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