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“...'undertow'. It describes (...) how underneath our own everyday lives - the shopping and squabbles and weeding and trips to the vet - there's a sense of being dragged slowly off, not against our will but regardless of it. And fighting the undertow, as children are quick to learn, is not usually…” quote by Robert Dessaix
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““...'undertow'. It describes (...) how underneath our own everyday lives - the shopping and squabbles and weeding and trips to the vet - there's a sense of being dragged slowly off, not against our will but regardless of it. And fighting the undertow, as children are quick to learn, is not usually the best way of getting back to the beach. Floating along with it, on the other hand, can be fatal. It's really the struggle, the argument with oneself, that interests...””

Robert Dessaix

About This Quote

Source Essay: The Undertow of Everyday Life, 2010

Life’s subtle pressures pull us away from peace; resisting can be futile, but surrender may be deadly.

In simple terms: Everyday struggles can drag us down.

Key Takeaway

Balance resistance and acceptance.

Themes

psychology philosophy life challenges self-awareness

Mood

thoughtful melancholic

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • career stress
  • family duties
  • health issues
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

flow theory existentialism

Questions to Reflect On

  • When should you fight the current?
  • When is going with the flow safer?
A Different Perspective

Total surrender can lead to loss of agency.

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