Conformity Quote by Robert Adam
“We show wisdom by a decent conformity to social etiquette; it is excess of neatness or display that creates dandyism in men, and coquetry in women.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Essays on Social Conduct, 1820
True wisdom respects social norms but avoids excessive affectation that leads to pretentiousness.
In simple terms: Balance etiquette with authenticity.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate genuine manners without over‑doing it.
Themes
etiquette
authenticity
social norms
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
philosophical
observational
When to use this quote
- formal events
- networking gatherings
- online interactions
Key Concepts
dandyism
coquetry
social psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- When does politeness become pretentious?
- How can you stay authentic in formal settings?
A Different Perspective
Cultural expectations differ, making “excess” subjective.
