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“Knowing Lissa missed me hurt almost more than if she'd completely written me off. I'd never wanted to hurt her. Even when I'd resented her for feeling like she was controlling my life, I'd never hated her. I loved her like a sister and couldn't stand the thought of her suffering now on my behalf…” quote by Richelle Mead
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“Knowing Lissa missed me hurt almost more than if she'd completely written me off. I'd never wanted to hurt her. Even when I'd resented her for feeling like she was controlling my life, I'd never hated her. I loved her like a sister and couldn't stand the thought of her suffering now on my behalf. How had things gotten so screwed up between us?”

Richelle Mead

About This Quote

Source Novel: Vampire Academy, Richelle Mead, 2007

The narrator feels deep, conflicted love for a friend, fearing loss and questioning how their relationship deteriorated.

In simple terms: Love for a friend feels like sisterly affection and pain.

Key Takeaway

Address unresolved feelings before they fester.

Themes

friendship love conflict loss

Mood

melancholic hopeful

Type

emotional relational

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • counseling
  • support groups
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

psychology relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What steps can you take to clarify your feelings?
  • How might open communication change the dynamic?
A Different Perspective

Love can be tangled with resentment and guilt.

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