Life Quote by Richard Wagamese
““See, when we get sent out into the world we come here carryin' two sets of gifts. The gifts of the father an' gifts of the mother. The two human bein's that made our life. We came here carryin' those two sets of gifts, each one equal to the other. But sometimes the world gets hold of us and makes us see diff'rent way. We get told as men that we gotta be strong, gotta be fearless. Lotta us kinda start ignorin' the gifts of our mother. Go through life just usin' gifts of our father. Bein' tough, makin' our own plans, livin' in the head. But if you do that you can't be wholee on accounta you gotta use both of them equal setsa gifts to live right, to fill out the circle of your own life. Be complete. Gotta use the mother's gifts too. Like gentleness an' nurturin' livin' in the heart.””
About This Quote
Source Speech: Indigenous storytelling, interview, 2010
Balancing masculine strength with feminine compassion creates a complete, authentic life.
In simple terms: Both strengths needed for wholeness.
Key Takeaway
Integrate heart and mind equally.
Themes
balance
identity
wholeness
masculinity
femininity
Mood
reflective
inspirational
Type
philosophical
motivational
When to use this quote
- personal growth
- leadership
- relationships
- parenting
Key Concepts
dualism
integrative psychology
indigenous wisdom
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you honor both paternal and maternal influences?
- What habits nurture gentleness in daily life?
A Different Perspective
Overemphasis on one side can cause emotional imbalance.
