Flattered Quote by Richard Steele
“A fool is in himself the object of pity, until he is flattered.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Spectator, 1711
People feel pity for themselves until they receive praise, which then changes their self‑view.
In simple terms: Self‑pity ends when flattered.
Key Takeaway
Recognize how praise reshapes self‑perception.
Themes
self‑esteem
pride
social perception
Mood
introspective
analytical
Type
philosophical
reflective
When to use this quote
- workplace feedback
- social media likes
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
psychology of self
esteem dynamics
social validation
Questions to Reflect On
- When does praise become harmful?
- How do you balance humility and confidence?
A Different Perspective
Excessive flattery can create dependency or ego.
