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Adulthood Quote by Richard Russo

“My God, he couldn't help thinking, how terrible it is to be that age, to have emotions so near the surface that the slightest turbulence causes them to boil over. That, very simply, was what adulthood must be all about -- acquiring the skill to bury things more deeply. Out of sight and, whenever…” quote by Richard Russo
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“My God, he couldn't help thinking, how terrible it is to be that age, to have emotions so near the surface that the slightest turbulence causes them to boil over. That, very simply, was what adulthood must be all about -- acquiring the skill to bury things more deeply. Out of sight and, whenever possible, out of mind.”

Richard Russo

About This Quote

Source Novel: Straight Man by Richard Russo, 1997

Adulthood involves learning to suppress intense emotions, keeping them hidden to avoid being overwhelmed.

In simple terms: Adults hide strong feelings to stay calm.

Key Takeaway

Practice emotional regulation and healthy expression.

Themes

adulthood emotional control self‑management

Mood

reflective somber

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • stressful work
  • relationship conflicts
  • parenting challenges
  • personal loss

Key Concepts

psychology coping mechanisms maturity

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance emotional honesty with self‑protection?
  • What healthy outlets help you process intense feelings?
A Different Perspective

Suppressing emotions can lead to unresolved issues and mental health strain.

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