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“Mind if I ask you another question?” I said. “Go ahead,” he replied. I cleared my throat and sat up straight in my seat. “How come…how come it took you so long to call me?” I couldn’t help but grin. It was one of the most direct questions I’d ever asked him. He looked in my direction, then back…” quote by Ree Drummond
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““Mind if I ask you another question?” I said. “Go ahead,” he replied. I cleared my throat and sat up straight in my seat. “How come…how come it took you so long to call me?” I couldn’t help but grin. It was one of the most direct questions I’d ever asked him. He looked in my direction, then back toward the road. “You don’t have to tell me,” I said. And he didn’t. But I’d wondered more than a handful of times, and as long as he was coming clean about bucket seats and other important matters, I thought it would be a good time to ask him why four months had passed between the first night we’d met in the smoky bar and the night he’d finally called to invite me to dinner. I remembered being knocked over by his magnetism that night during Christmas vacation. What had he thought of me? Had he forgotten me instantly, then remembered me in a flash that April night after my brother’s wedding? Or had he intentionally waited four months to call? Was it some kind of country boy protocol I didn’t know about? I was a girl. I simply had to know.””

Ree Drummond

About This Quote

Source Novel: Contemporary romance narrative, author’s original work

The narrator confronts uncertainty about a lover’s delayed communication, seeking clarity about his intentions and timing.

In simple terms: She wants to know why he waited months to call.

Key Takeaway

Ask directly for honest answers.

Themes

relationships communication uncertainty intimacy

Mood

curious hopeful

Type

romantic conversational

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • friendship
  • personal growth
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

psychology social dynamics timing

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does waiting reveal about his feelings?
  • How can she express her curiosity without pressure?
A Different Perspective

Assuming motives can lead to misinterpretation.

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