Belief Quote by Raymond D. Longoria Jr
““We must not decide how anyone else should or shouldn't be Living. Whenever I'm about to use the word "should" I use the word "could" instead. Should is judgemental, could is empowering. Try it out on yourself with the things that you talk to yourself about... I should do better. or I could do better.””
About This Quote
Replace judgmental “should” with empowering “could” to foster self‑compassion and agency.
In simple terms: Swap “should” for “could”.
Key Takeaway
Use “could” to motivate yourself.
Themes
self‑talk
empowerment
mindset
Mood
reflective
motivational
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- goal setting
- habit change
- overcoming self‑criticism
Key Concepts
cognitive reframing
self‑compassion
Questions to Reflect On
- What could you do instead of “should”?
- How does “could” change your motivation?
A Different Perspective
Might feel vague without concrete actions.
