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“I want to hide from it, that’s what I want to do. I want to just close my eyes and let it pass by. Let it take the next man.” quote by Raymond Carver
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““I want to hide from it, that’s what I want to do. I want to just close my eyes and let it pass by. Let it take the next man.””

Raymond Carver

About This Quote

Source Short story: “What We Talk About When We Talk About Love”, Raymond Carver, 1971

Avoidance of pain leads to escapism, but it may transfer suffering to others, reflecting denial.

In simple terms: Hide from pain, but it may affect others.

Key Takeaway

Confront pain rather than escape.

Themes

avoidance denial pain responsibility

Mood

somber reflective

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • personal crises
  • addiction
  • grief counseling

Key Concepts

psychology emotional health coping mechanisms

Questions to Reflect On

  • What are the costs of ignoring personal pain?
  • How can you face discomfort constructively?
A Different Perspective

Escapism can perpetuate harm.

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