When Patanjali says "non-attachment", he is not anti-love…
“When Patanjali says "non-attachment", he is not anti-love. Really, he is for love. Non-attachment means be natural, loving, flowing, but don't get obsessed and addicted. Addiction is the problem. Then it is like a disease. You cannot love anybody except your child - this is addiction. Then you will be in misery. Your child can die; then there is no possibility for your love to flow. Even if your child is not going to die, he will grow. And the more he grows, the more he will become independent. And then there will be pain. Every mother suffers, every father suffers.”
About This Quote
Source Lecture: The Art of Living, 1978
Non‑attachment encourages love without clinging, preventing addiction and suffering.
In simple terms: Love freely, avoid obsessive attachment.
Key Takeaway
Practice loving without possessiveness.
Themes
spirituality
psychology
relationships
attachment
Mood
reflective
calming
Type
philosophical
self‑help
When to use this quote
- parenting
- romantic relationships
- friendships
- personal growth
Key Concepts
non‑attachment
love
addiction
freedom
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you love without losing yourself?
- What boundaries help maintain healthy attachment?
A Different Perspective
Complete detachment can hinder deep connections.