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Growth Quote by Rainer Maria Rilke

“But everything that may some day be possible to many the solitary man can now prepare and build with his hands, that err less. Therefore, dear sir, love your solitude and bear with sweet-sounding lamentation the suffering it causes you. For those who are near you are far, you say, and that shows…” quote by Rainer Maria Rilke
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“But everything that may some day be possible to many the solitary man can now prepare and build with his hands, that err less. Therefore, dear sir, love your solitude and bear with sweet-sounding lamentation the suffering it causes you. For those who are near you are far, you say, and that shows it is beginning to grow wide about you. And when what is near you is far, then your distance is already among the stars and very large; rejoice in your growth, in which you naturally can take no one with you, and be kind to those who remain behind, and be sure and calm before them and do not torment them with your doubts and do not frighten them with your confidence or joy, which they could not understand. Seek yourself some sort of simple and loyal community with them, which need not necessarily change as you yourself become different and again different; love in them life in an unfamiliar form and be considerate of aging people, who fear that being-alone in which you trust.”

Rainer Maria Rilke

About This Quote

Source Poem: Letters to a Young Poet, 1908

The passage urges embracing solitude as a space for personal creation while remaining compassionate toward those left behind, recognizing that growth can distance us but also calls for gentle community ties.

In simple terms: Embrace solitude, create, yet stay kind to others.

Key Takeaway

Balance personal growth with compassion.

Themes

solitude creativity compassion growth community

Mood

reflective hopeful melancholic

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • artistic work
  • personal development
  • mentorship
  • elder care
  • friendship

Key Concepts

existentialism humanism psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you honor your own growth while supporting others?
  • What simple community can you nurture?
A Different Perspective

Isolation can breed misunderstanding and alienation if not tempered with empathy.

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