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“The gain is not the having of children; it is the discovery of love and how to be loving.” quote by Polly Berrien Berends
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“The gain is not the having of children; it is the discovery of love and how to be loving.”

Polly Berrien Berends

About This Quote

Source Book: Parenting Reflections, 2019

Love is discovered through children, not merely having them; it teaches how to love.

In simple terms: Children teach love and how to love.

Key Takeaway

Learn love through parenting.

Themes

family love personal growth

Mood

reflective warm

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • mentoring
  • volunteering with youth

Key Concepts

attachment theory emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does loving mean to you?
  • How can you cultivate love beyond family?
A Different Perspective

Love can be challenging without guidance.

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