Excess Quote by Pierre Choderlos de Laclos
“One must not permit oneself excesses, except with persons whom one wishes soon to leave.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Les Liaisons Dangereuses, 1782
One should only indulge in excesses with those they intend to part ways with soon.
In simple terms: Limit indulgence to temporary companions.
Key Takeaway
Practice restraint and mindful consumption.
Themes
self
moderation
relationships
temporary
Mood
cautious
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
advice
When to use this quote
- social gatherings
- business deals
- short‑term projects
Key Concepts
ethics
self‑control
Questions to Reflect On
- Who in your life justifies excess?
- What boundaries protect you?
A Different Perspective
Hard to apply with long‑term partners.
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