Children Quote by Phyllis Chesler
“children need truly evolved people - not other, larger children - as parents. Therefore, don't have a child until you've forged your own identity, can support yourself, and have already begun the work of creating or maintaining an extended family.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Women and Madness by Phyllis Chesler, 1972
Parents should develop a stable, independent identity and self‑support before having children, ensuring they can nurture an extended family.
In simple terms: Be self‑sufficient before becoming a parent.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate personal stability first.
Themes
responsibility
family
identity
Mood
reflective
serious
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- career planning
- financial independence
- relationship building
- family planning
Key Concepts
psychology
developmental maturity
Questions to Reflect On
- How can society support young adults in achieving independence?
- What resources help build a supportive extended family?
A Different Perspective
Self‑reliance may be unrealistic for many due to socioeconomic constraints.
