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Children Quote by Philippa Gregory

“I am old enough to be married twice. I am old enough to be bedded without tenderness or consideration. I am old enough to face death in the confinement room and be told that my own mother--my own mother--has commanded them to save the child and not me! I think I am a woman now. I have a babe in…” quote by Philippa Gregory
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““I am old enough to be married twice. I am old enough to be bedded without tenderness or consideration. I am old enough to face death in the confinement room and be told that my own mother--my own mother--has commanded them to save the child and not me! I think I am a woman now. I have a babe in arms, and I have been married and widowed and now bethrothed again. I am like a draper's parcel to be sent about like cloth and cut to the pattern that people wish. My mother told me that my father died by his own hand and that we are an unlucky family. I think I am a woman now! I am treated as a woman grown when it suits you all, you can hardly make me a child again.””

Philippa Gregory

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Other Boleyn Girl by Philippa Gregory, 2001

The speaker reflects on the loss and objectification of women, feeling reduced to a role that serves others' needs and expectations.

In simple terms: Women are seen as objects, not individuals.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and assert personal agency.

Themes

gender identity oppression family death

Mood

anguished defiant reflective

Type

literary personal social

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • widowhood
  • motherhood
  • healthcare
  • legal rights

Key Concepts

patriarchy objectification survival resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does society shape a woman's identity?
  • What can be done to restore agency?
A Different Perspective

Societal norms often silence women's voices and limit choices.

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