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Husband and wife Quote by Philippa Gregory

“He will come to trust you, perhaps,” she says. “If you have years together. You may grow to be a loving husband and wife, if you have long enough. And if I never tell you anything, then there will never be a moment where you have to lie to him. Or worse—never a moment when you have to choose where…” quote by Philippa Gregory
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““He will come to trust you, perhaps,” she says. “If you have years together. You may grow to be a loving husband and wife, if you have long enough. And if I never tell you anything, then there will never be a moment where you have to lie to him. Or worse—never a moment when you have to choose where your loyalties lie. I wouldn’t want you to have to choose between your father’s family and your husband’s. I wouldn’t want you to have to choose between the claims of your little son and another.” I””

Philippa Gregory

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Other Boleyn Girl, 2001

Trust builds over time, but secrecy can protect relationships from painful choices.

In simple terms: Trust grows, secrets protect.

Key Takeaway

Choose honesty or protect.

Themes

trust secrecy loyalty

Mood

torn hopeful

Type

dramatic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • parenting
  • conflict resolution
  • ethical dilemmas

Key Concepts

relationships marriage family dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • Will you reveal truth now?
  • What are the costs of secrecy?
A Different Perspective

Keeping secrets may cause future betrayal.

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