Cold Quote by Philip Larkin
“Selflessness is like waiting in a hospital In a badly-fitting suit on a cold wet morning. Selfishness is like listening to good jazz With drinks for further orders and a huge fire.”
About This Quote
Source Poem: "Selflessness and Selfishness" (unpublished), 1970s
Selflessness feels uncomfortable and restrictive, while selfishness feels enjoyable and liberating.
In simple terms: Selflessness is uncomfortable; selfishness is enjoyable.
Key Takeaway
Balance personal needs with caring for others.
Themes
selfishness
comfort
balance
Mood
contemplative
ironic
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- workplace dynamics
- family relationships
- personal boundaries
- healthcare settings
Key Concepts
psychology of altruism
social norms
Questions to Reflect On
- When does self‑care become selfish?
- How can you find comfort in caring for others?
A Different Perspective
Selflessness can be healthy when motivated by genuine care, not obligation.
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