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“The only reason these kids keep score in these games is for the parents and coaches satisfaction. Who cares? They're 10 years old.” quote by Peter Jacobsen
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“The only reason these kids keep score in these games is for the parents and coaches satisfaction. Who cares? They're 10 years old.”

Peter Jacobsen

About This Quote

Adults often impose their own desire for validation onto children's activities, turning play into a performance for adults.

In simple terms: Adults project their need for approval onto kids' games.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and protect children's intrinsic motivation.

Themes

parenting sports validation competition childhood

Mood

concerned reflective

Type

advice observational

When to use this quote

  • youth sports
  • coaching
  • family gatherings
  • school events

Key Concepts

psychology social dynamics motivation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does adult pressure affect children's enjoyment?
  • What can adults do to keep play fun?
A Different Perspective

Children may feel pressured and lose joy in play.

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