Care Quote by Peter Jacobsen
“The only reason these kids keep score in these games is for the parents and coaches satisfaction. Who cares? They're 10 years old.”
About This Quote
Adults often impose their own desire for validation onto children's activities, turning play into a performance for adults.
In simple terms: Adults project their need for approval onto kids' games.
Recognize and protect children's intrinsic motivation.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- youth sports
- coaching
- family gatherings
- school events
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does adult pressure affect children's enjoyment?
- What can adults do to keep play fun?
Children may feel pressured and lose joy in play.