Accounts Quote by Peter De Vries
“We must love one another, yes, yes, that's all true enough, but nothing says we have to like each other. It may be the very recognition of all men as our brothers that accounts for the sibling rivalry, and even enmity, we have toward so many of them.”
About This Quote
The quote distinguishes love from liking, noting that recognizing humanity in others can cause rivalry and hostility despite underlying kinship.
In simple terms: Love doesn’t require personal liking; recognizing others as kin can cause conflict.
Key Takeaway
Accept that love can exist without personal affinity.
Themes
love
humanity
conflict
recognition
relationships
Mood
reflective
neutral
Type
ethical
social
When to use this quote
- family gatherings
- workplace
- community events
Key Concepts
empathy
social dynamics
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- Can you love someone you dislike?
- How does recognizing shared humanity affect conflict?
A Different Perspective
Liking may be necessary for cooperation.
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