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Refuse Quote by Oscar Wilde

“Of course I refuse. I will have absolutely nothing to do with it. I don't care what shame comes on you. You deserve it all. I should not be sorry to see you disgraced, publicly disgraced. How dare you ask me, of all men in the world, to mix myself up in this horror? I should have thought you knew…” quote by Oscar Wilde
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““Of course I refuse. I will have absolutely nothing to do with it. I don't care what shame comes on you. You deserve it all. I should not be sorry to see you disgraced, publicly disgraced. How dare you ask me, of all men in the world, to mix myself up in this horror? I should have thought you knew more about people's characters. Your””

Oscar Wilde

About This Quote

Source Play: The Importance of Being Earnest, 1895

The speaker rejects involvement, expressing disdain and wishing disgrace upon the other.

In simple terms: Refuses to help, wants the other to suffer.

Key Takeaway

Avoid entanglement with toxic people.

Themes

betrayal shame revenge

Mood

angful defiant

Type

dramatic confrontational

When to use this quote

  • family conflict
  • public scandal
  • personal vendetta

Key Concepts

moral judgment personal boundaries

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why does the speaker feel justified in wishing harm?
  • What does this reveal about power dynamics?
A Different Perspective

May ignore underlying motives or context.

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