Paradox Quote by Oscar Wilde
““In this world there are only two tragedies. One is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it. (Mr. Dumby, Act III)””
About This Quote
Source Play: Lady Windermere's Fan, Oscar Wilde, 1892
The two great tragedies are not getting what you want and getting it.
In simple terms: Both getting and missing desires cause sorrow.
Key Takeaway
Balance desire with acceptance.
Themes
desire
tragedy
human nature
Mood
melancholic
thoughtful
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- career ambition
- personal goals
- relationship expectations
Key Concepts
existentialism
psychology
philosophy
Questions to Reflect On
- What desires bring you joy?
- How do you cope with unmet wishes?
A Different Perspective
Desire can motivate growth; its absence can also cause stagnation.
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