Bored Quote by Oscar Wilde
“I don't know how to talk. Oh! talk to every woman as if you loved her, and to every man as if he bored you, and at the end of your first season you will have the reputation of possessing the most perfect social tact.”
About This Quote
Source Play: An Ideal Husband, 1895
Social success comes from treating each person uniquely, balancing affection and distance to appear tactful.
In simple terms: Treat everyone uniquely to seem socially skilled.
Key Takeaway
Adapt your demeanor per individual.
Themes
social skill
humor
relationships
Mood
witty
playful
Type
aphoristic
satirical
When to use this quote
- networking events
- first dates
- team meetings
- public speaking
Key Concepts
tact
psychology
performance
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance authenticity with tact?
- What risks arise from treating men as bored?
A Different Perspective
May be seen as insincere or manipulative.
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